How can i solve the sex issue with my Christian girlfriend?
Question by Joey: How can i solve the sex issue with my Christian girlfriend?
I really like this girl, shes so gorgeous and i like everything about her, except she refuses to have sex be4 marriage. I’m a senior in high school and obviously cant even imagine marrying somebody yet. I dont normally date girls like this and its very hard to stay with her without having sex. Sex is a part of a relationship, and she even refuses the bj, or hj. it is sooo hard to deal with this and i dont kno what to do. when i broke up with her it wasnt satisfying getting with another girl and found myself trying to get her back. i now have her back and am in the same dilemma.
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Answer by John
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I think that you really just need to accept her point of view and respect her wishes. Theres obviously something about her that you can’t let go of. Just go with the relationship and see where it takes you. Sex isn’t everything, a relationship isn’t just purely physical. She views sex as a sacred act that is beautiful and pure and for the one love of your life. Don’t try to push the subject because it will go nowhere. If you really like her, than it shouldn’t matter that you’re not having sex.
Since she is a Christian she believes that you can only have Sex once your married. If you have to have sex to be in a relationship and she doesn’t want to, she’s not the girl for you. (((Sex is not part of a relationship, Genius)))
She has strong beliefs about sex before marriage, and if you had any respect for her, you would respect her beliefs. I know it must be hard for you, but think how amazing it will be in the future with someone that you truly love rather than just some random girl.
Sex isn’t the most important thing in a relationship, but maybe you should discuss with her how frustrated it is making you feel. Say you are putting no pressure on her, but you are finding it difficult.
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push her until she gives in!
You seem to have very different values so maybe you should consider finding a new girlfriend. It’s not because she “won’t put out” but simply because you value different things.
You should respect her and what she believes. It very important to her. You must really like her. Sex isn’t the most important part of the relationship. Being best friends is most important.
GOD BLESS