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Question by Missy: Christian advice about sex and marriage ?
I have a good friend that knows the bible left and right and KNOWS who God is. We both were abstained from sex for quite a while– because we didnt have boyfriends. Now that we both have boyfriends- she says that the bible says its NOT a sin AGAINST GOD to have sex outside of marriage, and only a sin against our own body. She says its normal now because our boyfriends love us and its hard to not have sex . Is she right? She says she knows its wrong but well never get boyfriends that dont believe otherwise. Im starting to believe her…..do you think shes right? I mean does God see this as sin against HIM or not?

BTW- we are 25 and we’re not ready to get married until few more years

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Answer by memphistokid
Rationalization…I tell you things change when you get banana & berries for breakfast the first time. Some exchange that wedding dress for a nurses outfit. Ask Jessica Simpson’s dad, or maybe Britney Spear’s pastor! On a separate note is their relationship solid?

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Christian Dating Advices for Man

Values have changed so much in the past years and the approach to dating for most people has also changed. However, if you are a man in a Christian relationship you should hold true to your religious values. Christian dating should be about getting to know each other and developing a true love for each other rather than rushing in to see what you can get out of the relationship. So you should treat your partner with courtesy, which may turn a Christian relationship into a Christian marriage.

A good Christian woman will probably not approach you on her own initiative, even if she is interested in you. But she often looks at you intently when you speak and look for chances to be with you. When you observe these details, the ball is in your court.

After you have established contact with a woman either in person or over a Christian dating web site, do not rush things. Take the time to learn all you can about her interests and goals in a friendly way. Remember that women need complete trust in you before they will consider moving forward.

When you want to move your relationship forward but she is hesitant, you should respect her ideas and put in more time getting to know her and helping her feel comfortable rather than scare her off by being too pushy. When she senses this, she will be grateful to you and your Christian dating relationship will go on more smoothly.

Another Christian dating advice is that once your dating relationship has begun to move forward, keep your actions and your thought pure. This means no sex! As sex is not the legal definition of intercourse for Christian, rushing into a physical relationship can emotionally cripple a Christian relationship.

Finally, when you have turned your relationship into a Christian marriage, love your wife like Christ loves the Church and be considerate but not unconcerned, be kind but not condescending. Lasting love can sense the lasting love from the God.

Just keep in mind this Christian dating advice: God established love between a man and a woman. Keep Him in the relationship and everything else will be easier.

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Issures of Concern for Teachers in Discussions of Single-Sex Education

At the beginning or end of each academic year, various individuals and committees on my campus seem to bring up the issue of separating the girls from the boys in classroom instruction.  The subject seems to receive lip service only, and if any decisions have been made, no implementation has resulted.

   Outside of the bubble of education, the subject of single-sex education comes and goes as a subject of interest.  The published research is extensive, interdisciplinary, and international.  Interested parties include psychologists,

attorneys, and politicians at the local, state, and national level; as well as parents and the student population.  Whenever interdisciplinary study is involved, private agendas abound and publications are often contradictory or suspect in nature.  For the purposes of this discussion, I will attempt to pull out of the vast literature a few topics that may be of particular interest to teachers and administrators at the intermediate, middle, and secondary level of public schools.

     One thing that is required to proceed is a brief review of the pros and cons of single-sex education.  On an initial web search, the following table  was useful in order to summarize the various arguments for and against single-sex education in general:

 

 

Women in particular benefit from a single-sex education; research shows that they participate more in class, develop much higher self-esteem, score higher in aptitude tests, are more likely to choose ‘male’ disciplines such as science in college, and are more successful in their careers. In the USA Who’s Who, graduates of women’s colleges outnumber all other women; there are only 83 women’s colleges left in the States today.

1998 survey from the American Association of University Women, a long-time advocate of single-sex education, admitted that girls from such schools did not in fact show academic improvement. That they are more inclined towards maths and sciences is of questionable importance to society as a whole. As the report noted, “boys and girls both thrive when the elements of good education are there, elements like smaller classes, focused academic curriculum and gender-fair instruction”. These can all be present in co-educational schools.

The inclinations of children in the formative years, between 7 and 15, are to gravitate towards their own sex. They naturally tend towards behaviour appropriate to their gender. It is therefore easier to implement an education strategy geared specifically towards one gender. Certain subjects are best taught in single-sex classrooms, such as sex education or gender issues.

The formative years of children are the best time to expose them to the company of the other gender, in order that they may learn each others’ behaviour and be better prepared for adult life. The number of subjects benefiting from single-sex discussion is so small that this could easily be organised within a co-educational system.

Boys and girls distract each other from their education, especially in adolescence as their sexual and emotional sides develop. Too much time can be spent attempting to impress or even sexually harassing each other (particularly boys toward girls). Academic competition between the sexes is unhealthy and only adds to unhappiness and anxiety among weaker students.

In fact boys and girls are a good influence on each other, engendering good behaviour and maturity – particularly as teenage girls usually exhibit greater responsibility than boys of the same age. Academic competition between the sexes is a spur to better performance at school.

Single-sex schools for women are a natural extension of the feminist movement; there are co-educational schools, men have had their own schools, why should women not? It would still be discrimination if there were only male single-sex schools; as long as both genders are catered for, this discrimination is redressed.

Single-sex schools (such as the Virginia Military Institute) are a throwback to the patriarchal society of the past; in many historical cultures, only men were allowed an education of any sort. To perpetuate this is to remind women of their past subservience and to continue to hold them from full social inclusion

Teachers themselves are often discriminated against in single-sex schools; a boys’ school will usually have a largely male staff where women may feel uncomfortable or denied opportunity, and vice versa.

 

Teachers frequently favour their own gender when teaching co-educational classes; for example, male teachers can undermine the progress and confidence of girl students by refusing to choose them to answer questions etc.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

(http://www.idebatre.org/debatabase/topic -print.php?topicID=105,7/25/10).

 

Summarizing from the replicated table, and with the selected information below, educators could presumably be persuaded to buy into the pro side of this long-existing debate, and then generate the following questions for further clarification:  The international bent  of so much of this research, and the fact that the United States, in comparison to Australia, China, and Great Britain where single-sex education is widely available, perhaps even institutionalized, has failed to adopt single-sex schools and classrooms in the public venue; The idea of whether only girls or only boys benefit from single-sex education; The remaining legal or quasi-legal perceptions and misperceptions; The idea of using single-sex classrooms as a solution to discipline issues and socialization; The phenomenon labeled “Gender Intensification” (www.singlesexschools.org/advantages-forgirls.htm, 7/26/2010) which accuses the co-educational public school format as being responsible for the perpetuation of gender stereotypes; and the unintended but seldom disputed advantage single-sex education has on the reduction of teenage pregnancy rates.  We will examine some of these issues in the remainder of this article.

 

     Research of single-sex education has been going on as long as education has existed.  To my initial surprise, nearly all of the studies measuring academic performance originated outside of the United States, although duplications studies have been done here.  Generally, this research has concluded that single-sex education is beneficial to both boys and girls.  As quoted on the website of the National Association for Single Sex Public Education, extensive studies from England, Australia, and Jamaica between 1998-2002 all reported academic achievement to be superior in single sex schools.  The Cambridge study concluded that the format was “remarkably effective at boosting boys’ performance particularly in English and foreign languages, as well as improving girls’ performance in math and science.”(www.singlesexschools.org/evidence.html, 7/25/2010).  In the same article, “Single-Sex vs. Coed: The Evidence,” a three-year pilot project at Stetson University in Florida, updated in 2008, showed dramatic disparities for both boys and girls scoring proficient on the FCAT:  boys in coed classes:37%; girls in coed classes: 59%; girls in single-sex classes 75%; boys in single-sex classes 86%.  These studies are important to teachers because they controlled for factors such as socioeconomic and ethnic backgrounds, and included extensive interviews with the students included in the statistics.  The main researchers in the Florida study also emphasized that “. . .it is not sufficient simply to put all the girls in one room and all the boys in another and say ‘let’s give it a whirl.’  Teachers and administrators need to be committed to the program and must be determined to see it through.

     While we would like to believe that academic performance would be the parameter teachers were most intrigued by, I would argue that teachers are at least equally interested in the breath of opportunity afforded to the student, the continuation and refinement of diversity in the classroom, and the autonomy of the student in a relationship.  Teachers as parents may also prioritize such categories as their child’s happiness and temperament (http://www.greatschools.org/find-a-school/defining-your-ideal/single-sex-e. . ., 7/25/2010).

     These overlapping sub topics serve to introduce the studies which measure the experience of girls, often regardless of age, in single-sex education.  Summarizing again at the NASSPE website, the authors conclude that: “Arguably the single greatest benefit of girls-only education is the greater breadth of educational opportunity which girls enjoy in an all-girls classroom.  At every age, girls in girls-only classroom are more likely to explore “non-traditional” subjects such as computer science, physics (or the primary school precursors to the physical sciences), woodworking, etc.  This finding is extraordinarily robust, having been replicated in every age group from kindergarten through college. . .” (www.singlesexschools.org/advantages-forgirls.htm, 7/26/2010). 

     Anecdotal evidence, including interviews with teachers, specialists, and administrators leads one to conclude that for girls, six through twenty-one, these experts who have personally experienced single-sex education as student’s or teachers would recommend it.  Ms. Jill Elizabeth Aufill, educator in the same urban, diverse district where I teach, provides a personal experience at the college level and speculates upon how it would improve success-for both sexes- in  her current position at a secondary school.  Paraphrasing from our interview, she observed that single-sex classes, particularly in a drama class, provided opportunities that girls would not have enjoyed in a co-ed environment, such as set design and construction.   As a high school skills expert, she emphasized that instruction would be identical for both sexes, but her experience portends that girls would “rise to the occasion given the opportunity.” (Aufill, Jill Elizabeth. Personal Interview. July 27, 2010).                                                                                                                      

     What about the boys?  The international studies reviewed previously are overwhelmingly supportive of single-sex classrooms for boys, perhaps beginning even younger than for girls.  They disagree only in their conclusions regarding who is helped the most, and the parameters of measurement.   While academic studies, particularly in Great Britain, are

strong in showing academic improvement, the popular perception is that boys are not as well socialized without the experience of having girls in the classroom.  On the contrary, studies show that boys have a similar experience to girls in deepening the breath of their experience, and that the boys grow up more well rounded and more adjusted in social situations

(http://singlesexschools.org/advantages-forboys.htm, 7/25/10).

     This brings me to the area of efforts to improve discipline and behavior by introducing single sex classrooms in schools.  A fascinating study from 2002 quoted on the same web site cited above tells about an elementary school in Seattle, WA. Where Benjamin Wright, then principal, simply wanted to reduce office referrals and improve attendance.  He reports that

not only was this accomplished nearly overnight, but these young boys also experienced dramatically improved standardized test scores and, when interviewed, reported better attitudes and enthusiasm toward school.  His results are consistent with replication studies in other areas of the United States, in Canada, and throughout Great Britain.  The almost irrefutable conclusion is not only that both boys and girls benefit from single-sex classrooms, but that boys benefit more, at least at the younger ages.

     It might seem paradoxical that by segregating the sexes you are improving diversification, but that is not what teachers, parents, or students are reporting.  In the single sex classroom, teachers are able to differentiate more within the sexes, able to apply the research on how the brain works and how boys and girls learn differently.  Teachers thus provide a more diversified, and more comfortable, atmosphere for both (http://greatdad.com/printerfriendly.php?id=3020, 7/25/2010).

     In conclusion, from an initial attitude of ambivalence about single sex schools, I am now convinced that this is one solution to the problems we as teachers are seeing in our middle and high school classrooms.  The statistics are in, the application of these results are lacking.  We need to start somewhere.

 

 

 

 

 

 

    

Female Sexual Wellness – Increase Libido and Sexual Satisfaction Naturally

As is the case with men, lack of desire in women can be of either physical or psychological origin and is very common and in most cases temporary.

Here we are going to look at some natural sex boosters that will increase libido and satisfaction.

The American Medical Association has estimated that millions of US women suffer from what US doctors call ‘female sexual arousal disorder’ or ‘FSAD’.

If you are in good health and simply need some help then these supplements are great for overall sexual wellness.

1. Gingko

Gingko has been found to help sex drive in both men and is now a popular sex booster and used by millions of men and women worldwide.

For example, a clinical trial of Ginkgo biloba extract with 63 patients found it to be effective in 84% of patients with antidepressant-related sexual dysfunction.

In the test, all phases of the sexual response cycle improved, including desire, excitement, and orgasm.

2. Arginine

Arginine is an amino acid, also referred to as L-arginine.

It is one of the more popular supplements for sexual dysfunction and has earned the nickname “natures Viagra”.

Arginine is needed by the body to make nitric oxide, a compound that works to relax blood vessels and allow more blood to flow through arteries, including to the sexual organs.

In a four-week, double-blind study, 77 women with decreased libido were given either a combination product or placebo.

Women taking L-arginine showed greater improvement such as increased reported sexual desire in 71% of cases compared to 42% with the placebo.

They also reported improved satisfaction with their sex lives, improved frequency of orgasms, and better clitoral sensation.

3. DHEA

DHEA (dehydroepiandosterone) is a potent hormone produced naturally by the adrenal glands.

It is converted in the body to both the female hormone estrogen and the male hormone testosterone. Levels of DHEA decline naturally with age.

Because older peoples sex drive declines tests have been carried out to see the affect of DHEA Supplementation.

Research suggests that it may well help improve sexual function in women.

Physician supervision is strongly advised when using DHEA.

4. Ginseng

Improves sexual dysfunction such as in cases of anorgasmia and decreased libido in patients taking antidepressants.

The active ingredients, ginsenosides, facilitate the release of nitric oxide in blood vessels which increases blood flow to the clitoris, resulting in more intense orgasms.

Ginseng is known to possess phytoestrogen activity and is believed to help the body adapt to stressful conditions another passion killer.

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Dong quai or angelica, is considered the ultimate, woman’s herb as a general blood tonic.

Dong quai contains vitamins E, A and B12 and rich in tannins.

Researchers have isolated at least six coumarin derivatives that exert antispasmodic and vasodilatory effects.

The essential oil in dong quai contains Ligustilide, butylphthalide, Ferulic acid and various polysaccharides.

These elements can help reduce blood clotting and relax peripheral blood vessels again aiding the flow of blood to the sexual organs as well as around the body generally.

Finally

The female Libido is extremely complex and may result from medical and psychological conditions and you should consult a specialist as with any condition.

The good news is that women in overall good health can benefit from the above supplements to improve mood, desire and sexual satisfaction.

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